
Historical Setting: Jarrow, 793 C.E.
A technique to practice love in the work of learning to love God and neighbor and self, and even love for “enemy” is a technique of working through words of fear and hate, then widening the disparaging words to be positive words. This exercise doesn’t pretend love, rather it discovers honest love through more complete understanding.
1. The first step is easy: name the narrow angry hate words — those adjectives of blame and hurt that define the enemy and make the unlovable “other” appear as evil. Afterall, enemies are made of words — hostile; hurtful; greedy; lying; snooty; deceitful… hate words are everywhere. They are narrow and definitive.
2. A word cloud expands and broadens the narrow word. “Greedy” can be said as “selfish” “inconsiderate of others” or maybe even “needy.” This expanding collection of synonyms widens in all directions, even into empathetic understanding like “needy.”
3. Grab onto this thread of understanding, and when the reach for love emerges the pattern of escalating hatred loses power.
When “needy” is a wider word for “greedy,” “the need” offers an opening to understand and care for an enemy. Perceiving the “greedy” as “empty” “longing” “needy” “grasping at anything to fill his void” “starved” “hollow.” Compassion for the suffering nature of greed emerges from the wider words until it becomes possible that honest love can overwhelm the hate. So, this one labeled, “enemy” mostly needs to share my pot of porridge with me. Maybe he doesn’t even know that; but I know it.
“Dear beloved enemy, come and eat with me.”
And so I offer him the nourishment over and over again, until he sits at my table.
This tool, widening the hate words into understanding realizes the Jesus command to “love neighbors as self.” It even works for the loving of self. In this way it is honestly acceptable to know that God loves me. It takes practice. Loving and being loved is a truth and not a hollow aspiration demanded in fear of judgment. Love is asked of all of us by God who is love. This tool for broadening hate words to caring, widens the possibility. It is actual love, not just an “ought to.” Love of self and others makes real the relationship with God who is love.
The love sermon is still a hard one because the simplicity ignores and over powers the fearsome control of hatred. No wonder the Romans crucified Jesus. They just couldn’t bear the love.
(Continues tomorrow)








